FORGIVENESS
I was always asked if I forgave someone easily and I often answered NO!. Why? Its simply because I dont know how to forgive. Other people say that it easy to forgive that to forget. But for me, it's the other way around. It is easy to forget than to forgive because forgiving is the very first step and forgetting is the next one. How can you ever forget if you haven't forgiven that person? It is very difficult to forget all the things that have hurt me or even you. Admit it, you don't easily wake up in the morning and think that you have forgiven anyone who have hurt you before. It was always a process..
So if you ever think to forgive someone in just a glimpse, Think about it first!.. Because maybe, you have forgiven by word but not by heart.
-----vulnerablebabe-----
CHANGE!!! WILL I love OR hate you?
Let me tell you a story about this person who became special to me.. I met her accidentally few months ago and I never thought that she would be one of the persons I will be happy mingling with.
Recently, I was one of the few people who witnessed how she fell in love with a guy. I saw her sufferings and happiness on that moments they were together. Until the saying "nothing last forever" happened to them. She got hurt. His boyfriend cheated on her despite everything she had done. She was very depressed. The fact that no explanation was said adds on her misery. At that moment, I felt sad for her and even its late at night, I still stay awake to join her in her tears. This time, I came to a realization.
"Nothing really last forever". To be more specific, nothing in this world, stay as what they are forever because there is what we called CHANGE. Sometimes this CHANGE lead us to happiness but it can also lead us to sorrow and tears which is the bad part of it.
Until now, I am still afraid of this CHANGE. Yes, there is no permanent thing in this world except CHANGE, but can we choose a CHANGE toward a good way that will not hurt nor punish us in any little way without our control??? I know someday I will came to realize the answer to this question. All i know as of this moment is, I want a CHANGE that will lead me to become a BETTER PERSON far enough from who I am today.
-----iamavulnerableone-----
